20 FOR 2020 {and my word of the year}.

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Resolutions, goals, aspirations, whatever you call them, I’m into them. Every year, come January, I sit down with my journal for some soul searching. I reflect on the past year and try to envision who I want to be in the next. The vision is often the same or similar from year to year – eat better! Exercise! Write more! Read more! Be more organized! Be kinder! Be positive! And I love it. No matter my follow-through, I find it inspiring to take the blank slate of the year, and envision with it what I will. So much can happen in a single year and it all just makes my heart swell with potential.

My resolutions are often vague ideas of the idea of person I’d like to be and things I might like to do. And when you look at goal setting and habit change, that’s what’s a key failure in most people’s resolutions. The lack of concrete action steps. So this year, I’m taking a page out of Gretchen Rubin’s book (one of my favorite self-help authors and podcasters), and I’m doing a 20 for 2020 list. This is a list of 20 things I’d like to accomplish in 2020. Some are easy, one-off things that I can cross off of my list, and others are extended projects that will continue all year.

Here they are!

  1. Make sourdough bread {because i love it and want to be someone who bakes her own bread. follow along with this journey on instagram}
  2. Write our will. {so important now that we have two little guys counting on us}
  3. Remodel our kitchen. {along with this goes saving up for it for the next months to come}
  4. Run a 5k. {my running goals this year are to become a more consistent runner – tuesdays, thursdays, and a family run on saturdays}
  5. Quit shampoo. {my sister just found out a few months ago that she’s allergic to sulfates – the stuff that makes cleaning products foam, so i’ve become very aware of how bad sulfates really are}  
  6. Grow a pumpkin for Halloween. {a whimsy little goal that the boys will love} 
  7. Read 52 books. {a book a week!}
  8. Knit a hat. {i’ve got the yarn, i’ve got the pattern, i’ve got the needles. just gotta do it}
  9. Go strawberry picking. {i’ve wanted to do this for years and this is my year}
  10. Print photos for our album at the end of each month. {my photos need to live on the outside of my phone or my boys won’t have any when they get older}
  11. Consistently blog 5 days a week. {because i love it when i do it!}
  12. Remember and celebrate special dates. {april fools day! birthdays! left handed day!}
  13. Reach a 100 day streak in Spanish on Duolingo. {i got to 53 last year, and broke my phone, losing all of my progress. gonna get past that again!}
  14. Do a 30 day yoga challenge. {i’ve had plans to do this, but no follow through}
  15. See a dermatologist. {my dad had skin cancer years ago, and as a fair skinned lady living in florida, i just need to get myself there this year. 
  16. Meditate every night. {for the soul and to keep my sanity}
  17. Grow a salad. {how fun would it be to just go outside and snip my family a salad from the garden. i’m told that arugula grows like a week here!}
  18. Give up plastic bags. {because the environment needs me to.}
  19. Have a hand in managing our money. {because i am a modern woman}
  20. Start writing a book. {this one scares me a bit. when? how? what about? but mike’s been motivating me over the past decade, and i think i need to just do it. just start it.}

I’ll be honest. I have about 5 or 6 more that I really want to do too, but 20 seems like enough right? Have to save enough for 2021! 🙂

My word of the year is {drumroll}: Follow-through. I’ve been thinking about it a lot, and one of my worst habits is saying that I’m going to do something (and I mean it when I say it! I really do!) but then I just don’t get it done. So this year, when I say that I’m going to do something, I’m going to do it. It’s going to happen.

What about you? Do you have any things you’d like to accomplish this year? Any resolutions you’ve made? Do you have a word of the year? I’d love to hear it if you do.  

OUR WEEK AT A GLANCE. {vol. 1}

I’ve been nursing a cold this weekend. The kind of cold that leaves food tasteless and makes you think you’re never going to be able to breathe out of your nose again. I’ve been pretty pitiful about it too. I rarely get sick, so I lounged around limply asking mike to give me sympathy. But I’m ready to take this week on after a weekend of early to bed and early to rise days. Laundry is done, clothes are laid out, floors are swept, the coffee is waiting to be made and my kids are probably going to wake up at 4am (again) thanks to daylight savings.

One day in and the time change has been so upsetting to me already. I looked up at the clock tonight and realized it was nearly pitch black outside at 5:30. “This is what time you get get home!” I said to Mike in horror. So long after dinner walks. So long evening yard romps and driveway play. It was also a so long to happy baby Ben as he was up at 5, skipped his afternoon nap and was ready for bed at 5, I mean 6 (yes, totally one of those people who say the real time for like two weeks after the time change).

The weather says that this week will be cooler than the 90 degree temperatures of the last few weeks. So maybe this is the time to slow down, cozy up, light candles at night and sleep under the covers with the windows cracked. Nights of cards on the porch with the twinkle lights on and hot chocolate before bed. This is the start of the season where we’re so heart-burstingly happy to live in Florida. Light sweaters are needed but no need for coats. The best. I’m hopeful. Very hopeful. Too hopeful.

Anyway, my week has a few extras this week. Literacy night one evening at school and our faculty meeting another day. This means I’m keeping things simple at home. Easy meals with lots of leftovers for lunches and two nights of leftovers for dinner. I’m going to try to stay on top of laundry, work out, drink water, start planning for the holidays, and do a few other little things to keep life in order.

What does your week have in store?